Is that really a stray cat?

feral-cat-2For the past 6 months, I’ve had a super sweet brown tabby male cat come to my door for affection, a little conversation through the screen with my interested cats, and some treats. I have learned that his name is Eddie and rumor had it that he belonged to a family a few doors down. So I left them a few notes asking them to please keep their kitty indoors because there is a feral cat in the neighborhood who has staked his claim (which I support) and he attacks Eddie over territory disputes. I also noticed a month ago that we have foxes taking up residency in the woods behind my house. So I am afraid for Eddie’s safety.

My notes did not receive a response. So in speaking with a few neighbors, they told me that Eddie appears to be living outside 24/7 and that at least one of the family members from Eddie’s “home” has spoken negatively about Eddie and could care less about his safety. So it was unclear whether Eddie was “owned” or abandoned. So earlier this week, when Eddie was on my porch again begging for some love, I decided to help him. After all, he was an outdoor cat without a collar or any identification and, legally speaking, appeared to be an abandoned stray cat. Or was he?

I took him to a veterinary clinic that my cat orphanage goes to and I asked them to first scan Eddie for a microchip. I crossed my fingers in hopes that he did not have one because then my cat orphanage would hold him for the required time period and then rehome him. I was heart broken when a microchip was located. Being an attorney, I followed the law and I called the microchip company and then called the owner. When 24 hours went by without a return phone call, I was hopeful that they had decided they did not want Eddie. But then I received a fateful call that they wanted him back.

So what do you do in that instance? Do you bite your tongue and politely return a cat that they treat like a toss away piece of garbage? Do you tell them what you really think about the situation? Do you educate? Do you put the cat in a witness protection program and not return their calls?

My approach was to be polite and educate. I explained to the lady in the household that neighbors love Eddie because he’s so friendly, but we are greatly worried about his safety. I shared with her that I had broken up two fights between Eddie and the resident feral cat in the past week and that it was only a matter of time before Eddie had an unpleasant encounter with the foxes. I explained that it’s not safe (in this area) for Eddie to be roaming outside. Initially she was pleasant and sounded as if she really loved Eddie. But when I asked her why she let him roam (in violation of our neighborhood bylaws), she became abrupt and said “he loves to go outside.” I really wanted to reply back “well, some people love to smoke cigarettes, but it doesn’t mean that it’s safe.” But I held my tongue and shared with her that we are concerned about Eddie and it would be best if she kept him indoors. I explained that most people would not follow the law, would ignore the microchip, and would either take him to a shelter where he could be euthanized, or would keep him. I also offered for my cat orphanage to take Eddie should she not want him.

And that was the end of the call after I gave her instructions on how to retrieve Eddie at the veterinary clinic. It’s been 3 days and I have not seen Eddie outside, so I hope my message was received. Even though I am an attorney, the animal protectionist in me wanted to not return Eddie and keep him safe. But then it reminded me of a situation a year ago where one of my beloved St. Croix rescue kitties escaped her home and was found by a volunteer of another cat rescue group (a group that hates my cat orphanage and would go to great lengths to harm us). And sure enough, they refused to return the cat named Smiley despite intervention by our local animal control. So my anger and sadness over Smiley brought me back to not wanting anyone else to go through that situation. If this happened to one of my cats (who are microchipped), I would hope that someone would follow the law and contact me. Legally, Eddie had a family and it is not for me to judge how they care for him so long as they are following the law.

So I hope that Eddie stays safe. I would love to hear from you as to what you would do in this instance. Would you follow law or would you ignore the microchip rehome the cat?

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Allie and Rudy

About Allie:

Allie Phillips is a nationally-recognized author, attorney and animal advocate. As a prosecuting attorney volunteering in her local animal control shelter, she exposed the barbaric practice of pound seizure and has gone on to eliminate the practice in numerous shelters. That started her path as a strong, effective and respected animal advocate. Allie has been a federal and state animal protection lobbyist and nationally trains criminal justice professionals on animal protection and prosecution issues. She has written the award-winning and only book on pound seizure: How Shelter Pets are Brokered for Experimentation: Understanding Pound Seizure and the go-to guide on getting involved to help animals: Defending the Defenseless: A Guide to Protecting and Advocating for Pets. 

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When did compassion become crazy?

Welcome guest blogger, Julie Germany, a friend and fellow feline adopter! I asked Julie to write a blog after she adopted 2 brothers this week in the wake of one of her cat’s passing away. She and her husband now have 4 cats and it caused some frustration for me to see people calling her a “crazy cat lady” on her Facebook page. To me, this causes three concerns: (1) it denigrates and perpetuates an inaccurate stereotype of any female wanting to adopt a cat out of fear of being called a “crazy cat lady”, thus reducing the number of shelter cats that can be re-homed, (2) it continues a negative perception towards cats (because you really don’t hear anyone being called “crazy ferret lady”) and (3) it makes light of the very serious and tragic situation where people do hoard and harm animals. And by hoarding, I don’t mean 4 cats … I mean hundreds of animals (and not just cats) to where they do not receive veterinary care or individualized attention/socialization.

So while some people may think it’s funny to call a female a “crazy cat lady”, I say “shame on you” for making anyone feel badly for having the compassion to open her home to four cats who are very well cared-for. Especially for the two recent adoptees who came from a cat orphanage where they resided for over 13 months, were adopted, then returned, and resided another 18 months (and were also friends with her two other cats, who came from the same cat orphanage). Shame on you for not saying, “Congratulations on opening your home to two more cats who are the luckiest cats in the world.”

Read on as Julie so aptly puts this situation in perspective! Folks, let’s keep the focus on praising those who adopt from shelters and provide wonderful homes, and differentiate them from those who truly collect and harm animals due to a mental illness. Bring it on Julie!

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Meet Bert & Ernie

By Julie Germany

If I had four horses, would you call me crazy or weird? Or would you just call me a horse lover?

What about four kids? If I had four kids, would you call me crazy? Or would I just be a mom?

Let’s say I’m a man with four dogs? Would you call me crazy then?

This week my husband and I brought home our third and fourth cats, two brothers who simply could not live apart and who had been at the cat shelter for over three years. Most of my friends and family were happy for us and understood the role that our pets have in our lives.

They knew that we live in a large, four story house with lots of room for the cats to play and that we invest a lot of time, love, and occasionally money in making sure our pets are well fed, cared for, healthy, and happy. They also knew that we recently lost a pet, and that the experience left us heartbroken.

But then there were the others who thought that four cats perhaps represented some type of imbalance or dislikable impulse. I have become a “crazy cat lady” — sometimes said unknowingly with love, sometimes said with judgement. And that makes me angry.

Why is having compassion for animals something crazy, compulsive, and strange?

Compassion and care for those who cannot speak for or fight for themselves — animals, children, the poor, the injured, the impaired, and often throughout history, women — are qualities that reflect the best possible parts of being human. Those have helped lead humanity forward and expand our universe have felt similarly.

Albert Einstein said, “Our task must be to free ourselves… by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature and its beauty.”

Or consider Arthur Schopenhauer, who wrote “The assumption that animals are without rights, and the illusion that our treatment of them has no moral significance, is a positively outrageous example of Western crudity and barbarity. Universal compassion is the only guarantee of morality.”

St. Francis of Assisi, who is depicted surrounded by animals, said, “If you have men who will exclude any of God’s creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men.

All of these quotes are from men.

The sad news is that women caring for animals has held a stigma for quite some time. That’s what irritates me the most about being called a “crazy cat lady.”

It’s shameful to be a woman, especially an old, unmarried woman, who cares for animals. We’re all hoarders, imbalanced, crazy and are somehow separate from the rest of “civilized” society. These same women throughout the centuries have been taunted and beaten, swindled from and pounded with garbage when they ventured into the streets. They were called witches, were tormented, beaten, and often persecuted and killed.

That is not compassion, morality, or love. It reflects centuries of the worst in human nature.

Let’s change that.

“Crazy cat lady” connotes so much barbarity . In 2013, we don’t use phrases like “fag” or “retard” in conversation because of the amount of violence, fear, and ignorance their use connotes. People who say those words now sound like idiots. Most of the change in vocabulary came from social pressure, from people who have spoken up and said, “that’s not cool.”

So, it’s not cool to call me a crazy cat lady. I care about animals and by caring about animals, I’m learning to be a better person.

How about you?  

About Julie:

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Julie Barko Germany is the Vice President of Digital Strategy at DCI Group. She previously served as the director of the Institute for Politics, Democracy & the Internet. She co-founded the mCitizen Summit in 2011 and is the conference director for the CampaignTech conference. She lives in Alexandria, Virginia, where she and her husband spend their free time herding their four cats: Patches, Jasmine, Bert, and Ernie.  

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Allie and Lucy

About Allie:

Allie Phillips is a nationally-recognized author, attorney and animal advocate. As a prosecuting attorney volunteering in her local animal control shelter, she exposed the barbaric pound seizure and has gone on to eliminate the practice in numerous shelters. That started her path as a strong, effective and respected animal advocate. Allie has been a federal and state animal protection lobbyist and nationally trains professionals on animal protection and prosecution issues. She has written the award-winning and only book on pound seizure: How Shelter Pets are Brokered for Experimentation: Understanding Pound Seizure and the go-to guide on getting involved to help animals: Defending the Defenseless: A Guide to Protecting and Advocating for Pets. 

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Screaming will get you nowhere

screamingI have been on all sides of the fence: prosecuting attorney, animal protection lobbyist (federal and state arenas), animal advocate, shelter volunteer, author and national trainer on animal protection issues, and a pet parent. I know how difficult it is for people to learn about animals abuse; and even more frustrating to watch how an animal abuse prosecution unfolds (or may not unfold at all). I have dealt with my fair share of prosecutors who are wonderful on these cases and go above and beyond the call of duty; I’ve also dealt with prosecutors who could care less and simply do nothing for our animal victims.

I have spent a large portion of my career trying to get everyone, including prosecutors, to take animal abuse more seriously and to do more each day to help animals and keep them safe. It’s why I wrote and published Defending the Defenseless: A Guide to Protecting and Advocating for Pets. And this is why I currently run the National Center for Prosecution of Animal Abuse at the National District Attorneys Association. We are available to train prosecutors and strategize with them on their cases; we don’t call them up to yell at them when we receive a complaint about their conduct.

This afternoon, I listened for 30 minutes to a concerned citizen/animal activist speak at me (not with me) about the case of a dog death that she feels is not being properly handled by the prosecutor or the veterinarian. It was obvious that she was upset (livid might be a better word) and nothing I could say could console her. As much as I tried to give her advice on how to approach the prosecutor, she just became louder and louder and would not listen. She actually accused me of not caring about animals (clearly, she has no idea what I’ve done to put myself in jeopardy in order to protect animals and steps that I take every single day to help them).

hands-over-earsSo this is why I am writing about screaming …. It will get you nowhere with a prosecutor, or frankly anyone else, including me. You get more with honey than you do with vinegar has merit. If someone were to approach you in an aggressive tone of voice and start attacking you about everything that you’re doing wrong, you would naturally be resistant to listening and would likely walk away, hang up the phone, or delete the email. Getting nasty and aggressive, especially when you care about animals and want to help them, is actually doing more harm to the animals. This is when people are dismissively referred to as “animal activists”, and it’s not said as a compliment.

This is why I talk to people about how to approach prosecutors. I even taught a webinar last December entitled Handling Community Reaction to Animal Abuse where I addressed animal abuse from all sides of the aisle. I will be the first to admit that there are prosecutors who give two hoots about animal abuse cases (and they likely do the same thing with other crimes); but I also know that there are a growing number of prosecutors who do care about these cases.

There are many organizations available, like NDAA, who are there to support and offer resources. So no one, including prosecutors, need to go it alone.

I also know how passionate people can get about the mistreatment of animals and, what appears to be, lack of enforcement of the laws. I know … I’ve been there. But you will get nowhere real fast if you approach someone with an accusatory, aggressive and hostile manner and demand justice in the same breath. It will not happen! And who loses …. The animal loses.

I am passionate about protecting animals as much as anyone and instead of berating prosecutors and others about their lack of professionalism, I am doing something about it by offering free trainings and resources. If I were stand up in front of a room of prosecutors and investigators and scream at them about everything they are doing wrong, I would never be invited to train anyone, anywhere, ever again.

i just want a hugWe can all convey our message and our desire to help without alienating those in a position of power. Be helpful, be a resource, be persistent, and above all, be kind. After all, the animals would want us to do that on our behalf.

To learn more on how to be an effective animal advocate, grab a copy of my book Defending the Defenseless: A Guide to Protecting and Advocating for Pets.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic, so please comment and share your ideas!

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Allie and Lucy

About Allie:

Allie Phillips is a nationally-recognized author, attorney and animal advocate. As a prosecuting attorney volunteering in her local animal control shelter, she exposed the barbaric pound seizure and has gone on to eliminate the practice in numerous shelters. That started her path as a strong, effective and respected animal advocate. Allie has been a federal and state animal protection lobbyist and nationally trains professionals on animal protection and prosecution issues. She has written the award-winning and only book on pound seizure: How Shelter Pets are Brokered for Experimentation: Understanding Pound Seizure and the go-to guide on getting involved to help animals: Defending the Defenseless: A Guide to Protecting and Advocating for Pets. 

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Does meat eating promote abuse?

Porky, Kipu, and Gonzo were the impetus behind Hawaii's 2007 felony animal cruelty law

I am a big believer that people need to decide what is right for them. Right? If you push people into doing something that they are naturally not inclined to do, they will not stay with it. It’s like the infamous New Year’s resolutions that have been trashed by the end of January. So in all of my animal protection and advocacy work, I never ever push people to be vegetarians or vegans, or make people feel bad about eating meat. But, I do think people need to know where their food comes from so that they can make an informed decision.

Today, I want to share a new research study that just came out of Central Queensland University called A Different Cut? Comparing Attitudes toward Animals and Propensity for Aggression within Two Primary Industry Cohorts—Farmers and meatworkers.” It is a fascinating study that looks at whether food production farmers or slaughterhouse workers are more inclined towards aggressive behaviors. It looks at their attitudes towards animals because of the work they do.

In short, the study found that “when slaughterhouse workers and farmers were examined separately, those employed in a meat processing plant showed a significantly higher predisposition for aggression, most notably in the areas of physical aggression and hostility. These findings speak to existing concerns about the effects this brutal industry has on humans, other animals, and the communities it calls home.”

There have been other studies that have measured whether slaughter facility communities have higher rates of violence (they do). For many of us it seems common sense that when someone spends their days chopping up dead animals for human consumption that they become desensitized to living beings.

So I am pondering out loud …. for those people who eat meat and are providing a demand for the supply of meat, are they co-conspirators in the abuse that has been documented in farm animals, in the desensitization that is occurring to the slaughter workers, and to the harm that those workers may subsequently cause to animal or human? It may be a stretch, but I pose the question simply to have us think about it.

What do you think?

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Allie and Lucy

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Doing the right thing for animals

Karyn, saved from pound seizure

Karyn, saved from pound seizure

Yesterday marked a mile stone for me. It was ten years ago (February 5, 2003) that a traumatic and unexpected turn of events thrust me into the animal advocacy world and changed my career and focus on shelter animals forever. Thirteen years ago, I learned about pound seizure (where shelters sell or give animals to research) at my local shelter where I was volunteering. I was horrified that such a practice existed in our so-called civilized society. So I instantly became an advocate for the shelter animals and to end the practice. Those were crazy days in trying to get as many of the shelter animals out of the shelter before the Class B dealer (animal research broker) arrived to pick his victims. When a cat named Karyn was taken from the shelter by a Class B dealer after attempts by my rescue group to save her were denied, I went into action.

Book coverAt the time, I was thriving as an Assistant Prosecutor. I was really good at my job and highly respected. But I wasn’t going to tolerate a corrupt shelter director punishing the animals because he did not like our advocacy to convince our county leaders to end this practice. You can read about the rescue of Karyn from the Class B dealer in my book How Shelter Pets are Brokered for Experimentation: Understanding Pound Seizure (2010), how I sacrificed my career to bring public attention to this practice, how two of my volunteers were terrorized and had their house ransacked by local police, how an animal control officer not involved was fired, and much more. It will shock you that these illegal tactics occurred and that the Michigan Attorney General got involved, found nothing wrong in our exposure of the practice, and requested an investigation into the actions of the shelter (which never occurred).

When I experienced what people in positions of power can go to in covering up a dirty little secret, even being an insider in the criminal justice system was not enough to stop the witch hunt. It was a scary time, but I was surrounded by an amazing support system. And this was all over a small black cat named Karyn and efforts by myself and an entire community to end this barbaric practice.

Kingston was a victim of pound seizure.

Kingston was a victim of pound seizure.

At the time, it was not easy losing my chosen career; but I knew it was the right thing to do and that in the end I would end up in a better place, as would the shelter animals. And sure enough, a few months later a ban was placed on the shelter from selling animals to research. This swept across Michigan and now only one shelter is left engaging in the practice (Gratiot County Animal Control). And efforts continue to move that shelter into this century and end that practice is being done through my work with Michiganders for Shelter Pets.

My only photo of Lilac. Read about her in my book.

My only photo of Lilac. Read about her in my book.

When I look back over the past ten years, I am overjoyed at the path that my career has taken to protect animals on a larger scale, that the incident ten years ago prompted me to publish two books, and that more states are ending the practice of pound seizure. At the time, I never intended any of this to happen … I only wanted to protect the shelter animals. I now know that a greater power used me to raise awareness in a public and shocking way and it was all for the greater good. This is what happens when you instinctively do the right thing, even though at the time it may seem difficult.

So today, I encourage you to do the right thing for animals. Follow the law in doing so, but do not be afraid to speak out for them. After all, if we do not advocate for them, who will?

This post is in memory of Karyn (who thankfully was rescued from the dealer), Lilac (who opened my eyes to this practice and could not be saved), and to the thousands of shelter animals who lose their lives every year due to unnecessary and outdated experimentation practices.

Stay strong and be vocal,

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Allie and Lucy (who was adopted from a pound seizure shelter)

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Happy Holiday Pets

Let’s see a show of hands … how many of you are already stressed out over the holidays? Many of you have family arriving (or are expecting to travel), have a lengthy to-do list of gifts to purchase, and are worried about money. Many people look forward to, yet dread, the holiday season. Did you know that your companion animals pick up on your worry and stress and can manifest an illness or behavioral problem?

Companion animals are like magnets to their people; they know when we are sick or stressed and try to comfort us. But in their compassion, they also take on our stress so that it is lessened on us. So what’s a person to do to have a happy holiday pet?

1. Don’t change the quality or quantity of time that you spend with your pet. A sudden change, including ignoring your pet, can result in your companion animal getting your attention in a negative way.

Lucy helping with decorations

2. Shake off your negative or stressful energy before you enter your home. I like to do a sweeping technique where I take my right hand and brush 2 inches above my body down the left side (sweeping the energy down) and then switching hands. It takes 5-10 seconds and you will notice a calmer you. Or you can ground yourself by touching nature (yes, be a tree hugger) or simply do a few rounds of deep breathing.

3. Give your pets a safe and quiet space in your home for when family and visitors are around. Some pets thrive around visitors, whereas others feel stressed.

4. Be sensitive to what your pet wants (not what you want). If your pet enjoys visitors, include them in on the festivities and being a part of your family. If your pet is nervous around visitors, do not force them to interact.

My Sammy Elf (rest in peace)

5. If you are going away for a day or more, find care for your pet that benefits your pet. For most pets, this would include a doggy walker or pet sitter that comes to your home. While it may be easier for you to place your pet at a boarding facility, is that really what is best for your pet?

6. Be consistent in your pet’s diet. If you do not feed table scraps, then do not start during the holidays. Your cat may be thrilled if you have Tom the Turkey on your dining room table. But if your cat does not eat human-grade food, then partaking in Tom can upset the tummy.

7. Be cautious of live holiday plants that you bring into your home (or while walking your dog). Here are some lists of plants that are poisonous to pets: from VetMedicine and from the ASPCA Poison Control Center. Also be sure to read the labels on pet toys to make sure they were made with safe materials.

Oscar helping me wrap presents (rest in peace)

8. Talk to your pet! Tell them what is going on, parties that have been planned, visitors that are expected, and any change in schedule. You may think they do not understand, but they really do.

9. Consider calming techniques such as: energy healing (Reiki, crystal healing); engaging in touch with your pet (just hold your hands on your pet’s heart and back for a few minutes); natural calming products such as Feliway, Comfort Zone or Rescue Remedy; and playing soothing music in the room for your pet during parties. Through my healing practice, I offer energy therapy to companion animals (both in-person and distantly) and have a line of Elixirs that are infused with healing crystals and Reiki. Check them out here!

Jacob waiting for Santa Paws

10. And lastly, show gratitude to your companion animal(s) during the holiday season and thank them for being a beautiful part of your life. And for those companions who have passed on (like my Oscar and Sammy this year), thank them for being your guardian angels.

I will be discussing how to have a Healthy Holiday Pet at ProFeed Pet Store in Alexandria, VA (Belle View Shopping Plaza) this Sunday at 12:30pm. I’ll also be signing copies of Defending the Defenseless: A Guide to Protecting and Advocating for Pets which makes a purrfect stocking stuffer!

 

All my best,

 

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A Tribute to Oscar

Many of you followed my journey the past week as I handled the sudden decline and passing of my dear 14-year-old Oscar. When he passed away this past Saturday afternoon, a little hole the size of a cat paw print was drilled into my heart. I’m now in the grieving process and have been working with crystals to help me (and my kitties Lucy and Jacob) process the grief and learn how to live life without Oscar (who was larger than life).

I have previously written about the grieving process when I lost my Sammy 10 months ago and all of the wonderful things that pets teach us. I adopted Oscar when he was only 4 months old. He came from a struggling shelter in mid-Michigan (where I eventually volunteered and ended the practice of pound seizure). The next day, he was diagnosed with distemper (panleukopenia) which is almost always fatal; yet he purred his little body back to health. This is how he earned the nickname Boo Boo (because he had so many tubes coming out of him while he recovered that he was filled with boo boo’s). After he recovered, I adopted Lucy to be a playmate for him. Then a year later, I adopted Sammy for him so that he would have a boy to romp with. So I’ve always said that I adopted one cat and he adopted two of his own. :-)

Oscar & Lucy

For 14 years, and he’s been through so many life changes with me. He’s been my rock, my joy and was the glue that kept us all together. Oscar loved Lucy; Oscar loved Sammy; and after Sammy passed and Jacob joined us as a foster cat, Oscar then loved Jacob and adopted him, too! I’ve never met another cat like Oscar … he was a perpetual kitten, even at the age of 14, with a heart full of love.

Oscar and Jacob (who joined us after Sammy passed)

What I wanted to share today are some interesting connections that I have become aware of with the passing of Oscar. I know enough about numerology to know that this means something; I just don’t know what it means. So if you’re a numerology expert, please post a comment to share your thoughts.

This is what I know:

(1) Sammy passed away on February 24, 2012 (adding up the numbers you get 2+2+4+2+0+1+2 = 13 and 1+3 = 4). Oscar passed away on November 24, 2012 (1+1+2+4+2+0+1+2 = 13 = 4). Both of my dear boys passed away on a 4 day.

(2) Sammy passed away around 1:10 p.m. and Oscar passed at 1:35 p.m. (both in the 13th hour of the day; add 13 (1+3) and you get 4.

(4) Sammy passed away one week (7 days) before his 12th adoption anniversary. Oscar passed away one week (7 days) before his 14th adoption anniversary.

Oscar & Sammy ... together forever

An animal communicator told me over a year ago (as both Sammy and Oscar were starting to decline from health issues) that they would pass within a short time period of each other because they were so bonded. What I do believe is that Oscar and Sammy (in spirit) were connected because the timing of Oscar’s passing is confusing. Oscar had been thriving and doing well (even with his health issues) up until a week before his passing. He then suddenly had a glucose crash and was not able to fully recover. It came out of nowhere and even the veterinarians could not explain it (since his health issues have caused high glucose levels for 18 months, not crashing to low levels). So I do believe that my two boys were working together to help Oscar pass on a specific day and time. Now their ashes are together in an urn that has this photo (above) on it.

What it all means …. I haven’t a clue. If you have insights, please share! In the meantime, we will continue to miss Oscar’s presence, him running around the house with a toy in his mouth while meowing, and being a perpetual kitten even up to a week before his passing. He was my joy. So enjoy this video of Oscar and Sammy showing how adorable they were.

All my best,

Allie and Oscar (a day before his passing)

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Seniors are Supreme: Celebrating National Adopt-A-Senior-Pet Month

Tully was 12-years-old when she entered a shelter. She’s now in a loving home.

I love November because it is the month for one of my favorite pet events …. National Adopt-A-Senior-Pet Month! I love senior pets for so many reasons, including having 3 senior cats in my home and heart right now. But I am also the most sad when I see a senior pet lose a home and enter a shelter.

Just this morning I posted a 9-year-old cat named Skeeters on Petfinder whose owner suddenly passed away and now she needs to find a new home. Having volunteered in shelters for the past 13 years, most adopters want kittens and puppies and overlook the wise and established pets. When I think to the cats that I have fostered over the years, it has usually been a senior pet that was not thriving in a shelter (or simply ran out of time). This is how my Jacob came in to my life a few months ago (and he’s estimated to be around 10-years-old). It  is always the senior pets who get sick from the stress of being in a shelter and from the trauma of losing their home and family, and they suffer unbearable grief and saddness because the life they once had is gone. I have always said that kittens and puppies are happy no matter what and can adapt to any setting, but senior pets mourn the loss of the people and homes that they loved and often don’t survive.

Here are 10 great reasons to adopt a senior pet (from Petfinder.com):

  • When senior pets are adopted, they seem to understand that they’ve been rescued, and are all the more thankful for it.
  • A senior pet’s personality has already developed, so you’ll know if he or she is a good fit for your family.
  • You can teach an old pet new tricks. Senior pets have the attention span and impulse control that makes them easier to train than their youthful counterparts.
  • A senior pet may very well already know basic household etiquette (like not attacking your feet at night) anyway!
  • In particular, senior cats are often already litter trained and are less likely to “forget” where the box is.
  • A senior pet won’t grow any larger, so you’ll know exactly how much pet you’re getting.
  • Senior pets are often content to just relax in your company, unlike younger pets, who may get into mischief because they’re bored.
  • Speaking of relaxing, senior pets make great napping buddies.
  • Senior cats often know that scratching posts (not furniture) are for scratching and toys (not hands or feet) are for biting.
  • Senior pets are some of the hardest to find homes for — so when you adopt a senior pet, you’re truly saving a life.

So if you are considering bringing a new pet in to your home, consider adopting a senior pet. Or if you can, offer to foster a senior pet until a home is found. You will receive so much love and appreciation in return and will know that you truly saved a life. So on that note, I want to leave you with this lovely poem (at the bottom of the page). If you have adopted or fostered a senior pet, please share their story and their photo on my Facebook page. I love happy endings!

All my best,

Allie and my new senior kitty Jacob

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“This Old Cat” by KC Sievert Bingamon

I’m getting on in years, My coat is turning gray. My eyes have lost their luster, My hearing’s just okay. I spend my day dreaming Of conquests in my past, Lying near a sunny window Waiting for its warm repast.

I remember our first visit, I was coming to you free, Hoping you would take me in And keep me company. I wasn’t young or handsome, Two years I’d roamed the street. There were scars upon my face, I hobbled on my feet.

I could sense your disappointment As I left my prison cage. Oh, I hoped you would accept me And look beyond my age. You took me out of pity, I accepted without shame. Then you grew to love me, And I admit the same.

I have shared with you your laughter, You have wet my fur with tears. We’ve come to know each other Throughout these many years. Just one more hug this morning Before you drive away, And know I’ll think about you Throughout your busy day.

The time we’ve left together Is a treasured time at that. My heart is yours forever. I Promise – This old cat.

Too exhausted, grief-stricken and angry to make a difference

Animal people are some of the most compassionate and caring people that I have ever met. For those of us who work and volunteer to help animals, none of us are immune from getting exhausted from the never-ending work that often involves horrific incidents of torture, abuse and loss of life. When we work/volunteer in situations where we encounter chronic tragedies and stress, we take on that stress as secondary trauma. It’s called compassion fatigue. We are then often filled with grief for our animal companions and anger towards those who caused the harm. We are even angry with people who just simply don’t care about the exploitation and harm being done to animals. It’s difficult to make a difference when we feel such negative emotions. We lash out with our emotions and then it’s challenging for people to take us seriously.

Compassion fatigue comes from helping abused animals recover, from watching far too many animals lose their lives in shelters due to overpopulation, but it can also come from working with humans who are challenging (to put it mildly) to deal with. Many people gravitate to helping animals because we, frankly, are sick and tired of the dysfunctional and mean-spirited nature of human beings. Yet working with animals will not insulate us from these people.

Some people work or volunteer in shelters where staff or directors actually condone inhumane practices against the animals (such as selling animals to research, gas chambers, and so on). Just this week, I listened to a radio interview of the director of a shelter in Michigan that still gasses. This person actually advocated for using the gas chamber and described in horrific detail how he puts the animals in the chamber (and he said the words with no thought that his practice is outdated and barbaric). My prayers went out to the poor animals who are unfortunate enough to encounter this person and shelter. Then my prayers went out to all of the staff or volunteers who truly care about the animals and know that this is a wrong way to run a shelter. Imagine the stress that they are under every day as they help the animals and try to get them into adoptive homes or to rescue groups, but then watch them being loaded into a chamber to suffocate to death? I know this stress because I’ve been there when I volunteered for almost 4 years in a shelter that engaged in pound seizure and had a high euthanasia rate. I basically did not sleep for 4 years because I and the other volunteers worked round-the-clock to get the animals out to safety. It was exhausting, but it had to be done. That, my friend, is compassion fatigue.

When you suffer from compassion fatigue, it can drastically impact your physical and emotional health immediately and long term. It is also when you become less objective and more irrational. Battles will rage amongst the people because everyone is so freakin’ exhausted! So it is best to take care of yourself along the way so that you do not become so depleted that you are unable to help any animal or think clearly.

How do you do that? I write about this in my book Defending the Defenseless. But here are a few tips to keep  your spirits elevated so that you can do your best work:

  • Keep expectations in perspective. You will not be able to protect every animal in every situation at every moment. Help those that you can, when you can.
  • Celebrate the small victories and each moment when you help an animal. These little moments of joy will energize you to help the next, and so on.
  • For each animal that you help, take a photo of them and keep a photo album. This will help during dark days when you feel overwhelmed and lost. I still do this in photo albums from a decade ago that show all of the cats that I saved from a Class B dealer and being used in research. It will help you to know that you are making a difference.
  • Give yourself some animal-free time, which includes socializing with people who are not involved in animal protection, yet are supportive. Finding friends, events and quiet moments where you can get away will leave you refreshed to help another day. It should not be animals 24/7.
  • Give yourself some you-time where you pamper yourself. Walk in nature (with your dog), take a nap (with your cat), light scented candles, take a bubble bath, journal, meditate, do yoga, run or walk. Do something to benefit your body, mind and spirit.
  • Surround yourself with positive people. When you’re dealing with the stress of helping animals, having encouragement will help you to keep going. So stay away from the nay-sayers and those who bring you down.
By taking care of ourselves, we can do more to help animals. If you’ve encountered compassion fatigue, I’d love to hear from you on how you deal with it. Story sharing is always welcome!
All my best,

Allie (comforting Shallot)!

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Dogs Dogs Dogs: Celebrating Adopt-A-Shelter Dog Month!

October is Adopt-A-Shelter-Dog Month. This month, like Adopt-A-Shelter-Cat Month in June, is so important to recognize and celebrate because of the over 4 million companion animals that lose their lives in shelters each year. That’s about 11,000 precious souls daily that are unable to find homes. So whether you have a dog (or five) at home or not, if you love dogs please get off your patootie and do just one thing this month to help a shelter dog.

What sort of things can you do (that won’t take a lot of time or money)? Here’s just a few ideas:

  • Call your local shelter or animal protection organization and ask them what they most need. It may be surprising that they need paper towels, laundry detergent or gas cards for transporters. Don’t assume that the shelter needs food, toys or treats (although many do). Ask them or check the shelter’s website wish list for items that they need.
  • Clean our your linen closet and donate clean linens to your local shelter.
  • Offer to volunteer to walk the shelter dogs. Not only will you get fresh air, sunshine and exercise, but you will have the company of a buddy who has lost everything and just needs someone who cares to spend a little time.
  • If you struggle going in to a shelter, offer to do things outside of the shelter to help, such as transporting dogs to other organizations or to their new home, to do a home check on a potential adopter, to pick up supplies, to coordinate a fundraiser, and so on.
  • If you have children, have them ask their teacher if they can work on a project to benefit the shelter pets. Again, ask the shelter what is most needed and then put the kids to work!
  • If you volunteer for a community organization, invite your shelter to speak to your group and then discuss how your group can support your shelter.
  • If you love to write, blog or post stories on social media sites of specific dogs that are desperately looking for a new home. Friending your local shelter’s social media page will give you plenty of information to share.
  • Open your home to be a foster parent for an elderly, sick, or sad pet.
  • Tell everyone you know to please adopt from your local shelter.

For a greater list of ways to help, pick up a copy of my book Defending the Defenseless: A Guide to Protecting and Advocating for Pets. It is full of hundreds of ideas of how to help pets.

The main goal is to get up and do something. So many people tell me “I could never go in to a shelter because I would feel sad and would want to take them all home.”  If every person who thought that actually garnered the courage to volunteer at a shelter, we would see a dramatic increase in adoptions, and volunteers could help the shelter with projects to be more welcoming for both people and pets. So we really do need to get beyond those selfish beliefs. After all, if you truly do love animals, you need to help.

And I can honestly tell you, there is no greater joy than helping a struggling shelter. Imagine if you were to lose your home and family and sat scared, cold and shivering with fear whether you would live or die. Every single person who loves animals would not hesitate to lift that pet into their arms and give comfort. So why are we denying the shelter pets this same comfort? Helping one animal feel better, comforting a scared pet, talking or singing to a pet, giving a soft blanket and a soft touch will not only help the pet, it will help you. And when you help your first pet find a home, you’ll be hooked and go back to do it all over again for the next one.

So this month, while we celebrate our shelter dogs, take a step and do something to help. You will be thanked with tail wags, body wiggles and wet kisses. And the worst thing that will happen is that you welcome home a new family member.

Please share other ideas of how you are helping shelter dogs this month! For me, I’m hoping that the local shelter will accept my offer to provide energy healing to some of the more stressed-out dogs. Paws crossed that they agree!

All my best,

Allie, hanging out with Under Dog!

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